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“BECOME A PERSON OF SPIRITUAL INFLUENCE”
But thanks be to God, who always leads us in triumph in Christ, and
manifests through us the sweet aroma of the knowledge of Him in every
place. For we are a fragrance of Christ to God among those who are being
saved and among those who are perishing; to the one an aroma from death
to death, to the other an aroma from life to life.
2 Corinthians 2:14-16
Would you like to learn to be a Christ-like peacemaker not a peace-faker? If you are in conflict with another person – your spouse, child, or another family member, a co-worker, a neighbor, a brother in the church – there is a way to approach them without ignoring, attacking or pulling away.


“Unity in Conflict” contains biblical conflict resolution tools that have motivated and guided many people, especially married couples, in conflict to experience God-given unity. By working through these eight lessons, you will learn to draw near to Christ and His mind, as you learn His way of dealing with strife in relationships. You will learn, like Him, to offer peace and unity in relationship without compromising truth. As a result you will experience the inner peace of Christ and become an instrument of peace in the hand of your Savior to those who tempt you to fight and quarrel. The Bible will be opened as God’s Spirit persuades you more deeply in the truths
of Biblical peacemaking.

Tim Bryant
Audio 1 – It Only Takes One
Audio 2 – Examining Your Concerns
Audio 3 – Examine Your Heart
Audio 4 – Examine Your Circumstances
Audio 5 – Humility in Conflict (Pt 1)
Audio 6 – Humility (Pt 2) & Sacrificial Love in Conflict
Audio 7 – Speak the Truth in Love
Audio 8 – Involving Others in the Conflict

In another article I have included a sample letter with an assignment that I send to two people in conflict before I get started counseling them. To read that article click here. The assignment I include does indeed often help the two people in conflict get properly oriented to see the Lord begin a work of reconciliation right away.


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